Tuesday, 22 March 2016

17 year old girl arrested for selling her baby for 500 thousand [photos]

A 17 year-old girl, Miss Tessy Obianua, allegedly sold her baby girl N500,000 to a couple in Onitsha, Anambra state.

The Police say Tessy fell victim of a specialized child trafficker, Mrs. Chibuzor Okoye, who convinced her to sell the baby to Mr. And Mrs. Sunday Kalu, who were desperately looking for a baby.Daily Post reports that, while parading the suspects, the new State Commissioner for Police, Mrs. Hilda Ibifuro-Harrison said five persons were involved in the case.She said the police got a tip on matter when Tessy’s father, Mr. Henry Obianu, who lives at Ogbese in Akure North local government area of the state reported that his daughter was missing with her pregnancy to the police.

According to her father, Tessy ran away with her pregnancy in January last year but later re-appeared in May without the baby or pregnancy.After more pressure about the whereabout of the baby from Tessy, she was said to have confessed to one of her uncles that she sold the baby to a couple in Onitsha.

The Police investigation also revealed that Tessy was lured to Onitsha by her father’s neighbour in Ogbese, simply identified as Mr. Jude Azuka.It was learnt that at a time, Tessy was declared missing at home, she was taking to Onitsha by Azuka to Okoye’s house who helped her to nurse her pregnancy until she delivered.

The Police boss said “through investigation to Onisha, the police arrested Okoye, at No. 3, Tonny Olisa street Awada in Onitsha, who specialized in child trafficking.


    “It was Okoye, who sold the said baby girl to the couple at No. 8, Uzogwu street Onitsha at the sum of N500,000.
    “She claimed to have given Jude the sum of N200,000 out of which Jude claimed to have bought clothes and shoes to Tessy and also gave her N30,000.Mrs. Chibuzor thereafter forced Tessy, to sign an undertaking that she would never come back for the baby”.


Ibifuro-Harrison, however, urged parents to be wary of the antics of criminal elements, who act friendly around their wards.

Ciara and Russell Wilson makes first public appearance since after engagement




 On Saturday, Ciara and her fiancĂ© Russell Wilson made their first public appearance after they got engaged. They were at the Cosmopolitan Hotel's Marquee dayclub season opening here Ciara performed. She also put her huge engagement ring on display.

Sunday, 20 March 2016

My Brothers ganged up against me Peter Okoye of P-square reveals the whole secret about their beef

In an exclusivehttp://signup.clicksor.com/advertise_here.php?nid=1&srid=&ref=367789 interview to The NetNG  on Thursday, March 17, Peter Okoye talked extensively talked about the genesis of the problems within Psquare, Jude Okoye and the feud in general.
The interview took place at Peter’s home in Lekki. It is a very long interview but it’s worth reading.
Being in Burden with Psquare:
The issue was the fact that I was in Psquare and it felt like I was in fear. If I don’t do this, Psquare will break-up, if I don’t do that, Psquare will scatter. Four years ago, I told Jude that he needs to step down as our manager, because I didn’t want to disrespect him as a brother, but this is business, we have to structure it. And Jude said to me that there’s a way I’ll talk to him, and he’ll slap me. So I kept quiet.
So, a few hours after, Paul came to me and said if I want Jude to step down it’s not a problem, but it’ll mean that he (Paul) will go solo. The the first time word got out about Psquare breaking up, a lot of people called us, senators, governors, and people like that. In fact three of us were once in a private jet to go and see someone who wanted to resolve our issues and we didn’t speak to each other all through the flight. At the end of the day, I swallowed my pride for peace to reign and allowed Jude to remain as our manager. I and Paul stay together in this estate and the last time I saw him was about a week ago.
But you live in the same premises. Why is this so?
Truth is, I’ve not been in talking terms with Paul since December 2015 and that was why I travelled in January because I had a lot on my mind. Something happened at Mavin Studios last year that broke my heart.
Now listen to this, Psquare featured on songs with J-Martins, Bracket, LKT, 9ice and these 4 songs were done by Paul alone, but guess what, did I appear in the videos, YES.
Now hear this, we have other collabos with Kaha, Darey, Ruggedman. I did these songs alone. How come they don’t have videos? Paul refused to appear in the videos.
So I told Paul that when next he does collabo alone, he should be in the video alone, because it got a point where artistes began to feel if they do a collabo with Paul it gets a video but if it’s me it doesn’t get a video.
The last collabo we did was with Flavour and I refused to do another one. Even Flavour had to speak all the Igbo he knows to convince me before I agreed to do it. Only for my brother to come and tell me that ‘shey I thought you said you won’t appear in any video that I did the collabo alone? Why did you appear on this one?’. I was sad but I knew another one will come’.
So Tiwa Savage called me, apparently Paul had gone to do a song with her, not the campaign song they are promoting now, another Psquare collabo entirely. So she called me that she’s been trying to reach Paul to get the CD of the song from him that he’s already done his part, so I went to Paul’s house to help ask for it and tell him that I want to go to their studio to do my verse and he said he doesn’t know where the CD is.
I went to the Mavin studio to meet Tiwa, when I got there, she asked for the CD and I told her Paul didn’t give me any CD, so I called him again and gave the phone to Tiwa and told her on phone that the CD is at Omole, so I got into the studio recorded my verse and when I finished, everybody was clapping. I was surprised only to realize that Paul had gone to tell them that I don’t sing or write songs.
I felt really bad and betrayed, but I covered up for him. I jokingly asked Teebillz if they gave him Red Label and he said yes, so I was like you guys caused it, and we laughed over it. So when my assistant went to pick up the CD, Paul and Jude started shouting at him to tell Peter that what is he doing at the Mavin studio? He knows how we work. The next day, I went to Paul and told him how I felt when I heard what he said. Only for Jude to say that he made Paul the lead singer of Psquare 8 years ago! A leader leads, he doesn’t destroy.




Inspite of all these, Psquare had zero structure:
When it comes to decision-making, it has always been a Triangle formation, and the highest vote wins. I never used to complain because we were all okay, but what has changed now is the fact that we’ve grown. You can make a certain decision based on how we used to do it and it may affect everyone as an individual, but it gets to a point when the decisions taken never gets to be my own and I began to wonder if anything is wrong.
I always get Ideas, most of Psquare ideas come from me, and when I say Idea, I mean materials we need to put out for people to see, video, stage performances and all. But when I come up with them, nobody wants to accept it. I didn’t complain because people still love what we do, but then again, there wasn’t much competition in the industry back then.
As time goes, we should get better, it shouldn’t be same triangle deciding, because if we continue that same way, we’ll lose it. All I want is a proper structure in the sense that, we need to have proper management, business managers and all’.
As I speak to you right now, we don’t have any office, no structure. When this issue started about five years ago, our lawyer told us the way we run our business is wrong without a structure.
I’ll give you an instance. We had to go perform somewhere once, and because I had a slight argument with Paul, he said he’s not going. The show was the wedding of the President’s daughter, because some times when we perform for some certain people, they always talk to me, they don’t call Jude.
I didn’t even know until we got to the airport and at the end of the day we missed the reception, but we finally performed at the gala night, because when I got to the airport my brother wasn’t there, and I became confused on how I was going to explain to the President that we can’t perform?
So I made up my mind to go with the band, perform like that and lie that my brother was sick. So we left for Abuja and when we got to the hotel dressing up my assistant manager called that he was on the way to the airport with Paul, so we had to wait for them to land in Abuja and that was why we couldn’t make it on time to the reception’.
The president was mad. In fact Mama Peace (Patience Jonathan) was really mad. But we eventually made up for it with a performance at the Gala night. Only for Jude to say Paul said he wasn’t going for a show and I still went on it with.
Imagine if Jude had a proper structure and we had contracts? That wouldn’t happen. And it was more because the show came through me. If the show came through Jude it wouldn’t have happened. I don’t have a problem with doing things as a family, but then the structure and proper organization is important too. The name Psquare is very big outside but inside we have no structure, I see people like Audu of Chocolate City, Mavin Records, even Ubi Franklin and I wanted us to have a structure like that. Psquare is just up there because of the grace of God.
You’ve said a lot about Jude being the problem, and how you’re the minority. But, really, as Peter, what do you bring to the table?
It’s really sad that people have labeled me ‘Dancer’, and people don’t really know what I do for Psquare. Kudos to Paul, I’m not a good songwriter, in-fact I’ll rate myself 30%, so when it comes to song writing, I give it to Paul 100%.
However, not writing songs does not disqualify you from being a musician. I can tell you for free that a Nigerian wrote two of the songs on Rihanna’s new album. I’ve travelled a lot and most times people ask, ‘which one are you, the singer or the dancer’? And it’s really sad.
In Psquare, I am the creative person, I can sit-down and tell you what people want to hear, what they want to see and what they want to learn from Psquare. But it’s not something to brag about’.
Jude directs all our videos.
This whole thing began when Paul went online and started post lyrics of most of our songs on Instagram that he wrote them all, just because Peter brought in something to the table’.
I’ve been trying to bring more business for Psquare I didn’t know it was going to cause problems. I sent my manager to a meeting in Senegal to meet with Universal music about getting us deals, and when he came back, the way they responded to him wasn’t encouraging.
So I had to send Diouf, the footballer to help get the documents and convince my brothers before we could pull through with the deal. And after some months, we started making money. Meanwhile, while filling the forms, Jude filled everything as Psquare. So the first money came, we shared it. The second money was bigger, it came and we shared it too. That was when Paul said we had to re-fill the form and give proper credit to the songwriter (Himself) and if the form is not brought back, he’s going to expose me and tell the world that he writes all the songs.
And the next day he went online to post those lyrics. So my question is, when he was doing that what did Jude do about it? Absolutely nothing!.
I remember I once told Paul something, when Jude was using the term ‘Our Money’ when he just became our manager, that was when we made our first 1 million. I called Paul and told him that our former manager used to make about 15%, now that Jude is our manager, let’s think of a percentage that we’ll be giving him and put it on paper.
Paul was like, it’s not necessary. Probably, he went to tell Jude about it. ’m sorry to say this, but I think Paul is weak. u know they say change is constant, you can’t stay at one spot, as the industry moves, you move. So I won’t say the problem we have is money. I think everybody is just dragging power unnecessarily. Imagine Jude telling me that he’s in charge of Psquare and there’s nothing Peter and Paul can do about it, and I look at Paul he’s quiet about it.
I’ve never seen where a manager talks to his artistes anyhow. If there’s any issue you should call us aside quietly to talk about it.
Why I Called Out Jude on Social Media
First of all, if I as an artiste tells you to step down, and you say Paul and I cannot do anything, then there’s no other way I can take you out than going public.
On December 14, 2015 we sat down to have a meeting hoping to be able to set a proper structure in place, but Paul noticed that it wasn’t working the way he wanted, so he said he wants to tell us that he’s starting a new group.
I thought he meant he wanted to start a record label, and he was like no, he’s starting a new group that he belongs to. And Jude simply said, ‘anybody stop you’? He picked up his phones and walked out of the meeting. I felt it had already been discussed behind me’.
I later found out that Paul is already recruiting the group and Jude is their manager. At the moment I heard they are called ‘The MVPs’ I don’t know what it means yet.
So how do you expect me to be managed by the same person we’ve been having issues with, who is now the manager of the other group. There’ll surely be conflict of interest. And it actually happened some weeks ago.
Jude called me, after I had said he’s fired. He called me on a Thursday to say ‘Hope you know we are going to the embassy tomorrow for that show in Holland’. I know about the show, it was already booked before the issues started, so I told him, ‘Bro you are not my manager, talk to my manager’. He said, ‘Noted’. And the next day, they went to the embassy with the new group members, which means they had already set up their interview at the embassy because it’s not possible to get an appointment in less than 24 hours’.
So I traced the organisers, and told them that Jude does not represent us, he represents only Paul. I told them this is what it takes to get Peter and Paul, Peter alone or Paul alone.
So I went on social media to protect our careers, because if I didn’t do it, Psquare will not release any materials anytime soon, they’ll be busy promoting their artistes.
And I remember going to talk to Paul about it before I went on social media, I went to his house he was in his room with his friend, and I was like can he excuse us, I want to talk to you and Paul said, no, his friend should stay, anything I want to say should be said in front of him. So I said, no, you know we are brothers and he was like, ‘oh, na now you know say we be brothers.
So I said, I came to talk to him about what’s been happening, but it was turning into an argument so I left and I travelled out. I was away for over a month, knowing that we didn’t have any show at that time. I went to Turkey, London to rest my mind, my friend Samuel Eto’o invited me to come.




How I Fired Jude
The day I fired Jude was at a concert. It was the day I came back, we had a show, so I went straight to the venue in Lagos and told Jude I want to talk to him, and he said I should say anything I want to say in front of everyone. I was like that was the same attitude Paul gave me before I travelled’.
‘So Jude was like if I like I should get out, and I was like guy don’t embarrass me. He said who are you, because you think you are Psquare? So I told him openly that if he cannot resolve me and Paul’s issue, he doesn’t deserve to be our manager, and he said I should get out. There and then I told him ‘You are fired’! He looked at me and said, ‘You fit fire me’?’.
That was when I entered my car and started Tweeting. How else can you take him out?
Long before I made up my mind, Paul already said there’s no more Psquare, If Jude leaves he goes with him’.
And before I announced my management, I wanted my mind to be clear, so I went back to Paul, this time we were alone and we spoke a lot, I told him I had no issues with him, but he needs to stop letting Jude use him as a shield. Both of us started shedding tears, and when we finished he still said he hopes I’m not here to tell him that I still want Psquare and I told him I want to move on, because he already has a manager (Jude) and I don’t, so I had to structure myself too.
And I didn’t want to allow the Psquare name to fade before moving on. Look at Don Jazzy and Dbanj, when they broke up, they waited for like 6 months and had to start again. Now, that Psquare just broke up, let me use the name to move on quickly, because there’s no time’.
If our Mum was still Alive
To be honest with you, I feel if our mum was still alive, we would have pushed her to her grave with this whole thing. It’s really sad that even with everything going on, I still stand with Paul’.
Signing solo deals
It still boils down to the fact that Psquare was not structured. Music is like football, Messi has his manager, Neymar has his manager, Suarez has his manager, but when they get to the pitch, they play as a team.
Before I did the Olympic deal, I’ve brought some deals for Psquare but the people endorsing Psquare only see Peter and Paul, but behind it’s Peter, Paul and Jude so the price goes so high that it never works’.
But when a deal comes to my table, it’s not like they called Jude and I went behind to talk to them, the deal came directly to me from Jude’s friend. He called me and told me about it, and before then I had already established my own beverage factory and the deal coming was from PZ, which means I could do more business with them, so should I lose that deal because they didn’t call Jude?’
And I asked them that why me and not Psquare, they said they couldn’t afford Psquare and more so the brand was tailored to fit one person. So I went back to tell Paul and Jude and they didn’t say anything, they didn’t ask me not to do it.
Don’t get it wrong, we’ve been doing different private businesses, the only difference was that the Olympic deal had to come out public. I’ve been doing mass housing projects on my own, Paul has been doing real estate, Jude has been doing his own thing, he even went to do Northside record label, so it’s not like it’s the first thing I’m doing alone. It’s just the first one that went public. So even when I decide to open my beverage factory, people will still say why am I doing it alone without my brother.
It’s NOT a Publicity stunt
I hear lot of people think it’s all a stunt, and that’s what I really want to put an end to. It’s not a stunt at all. It has been going on for a while. When Jude didn’t come to my wedding, people started saying we broke up and then others said it’s a stunt, then when Paul posted those lyrics stuff on Instagram people thought it was a stunt too, but the truth is that, this is not and has never been a publicity stunt.
I am telling you the truth, I am moving on because people are already getting tired of this Psquare brouhaha, now I have my manager Olatunde Michaels and I expect everybody to respect that. I am a family man, a musician, singer and dancer, if I don’t move on, Psquare will collapse and there’ll be nothing left.
Already Paul has done two songs without me but no one is saying anything, he did a song with his artiste ‘Muno’ with his name as Rudeboy did they feature me? He did a song with Tiwa Savage, did they feature me?.
Last week Yemi Alade sent me her album track list to help her share on Instagram, guess what I saw, she had a song with Psquare that I didn’t even know about. Only Paul did it.
The Next Level
Because I announced a new management, people feel am the one going solo, but Paul has already gone solo, he’s moved on and didn’t need to announce any new management because he still works with Jude, so I had to announce mine and believe it or not, people are booking me for gigs already.
And guess what, I’ll still perform Psquare songs, nobody can stop me, nobody can stop Paul too, we didn’t have a contract with Jude, so I have the right to perform Psquare songs especially the ones I took part in.
I’ll also consider releasing solo songs and even albums. Truth is – in the last album Paul did some songs alone, I did some songs alone. ‘Bring It On’ was Paul alone, ‘Eje Ajo’, ‘Shekini’ was done by me alone.
Remember the 4 songs ‘Free For Fans’ that we released, those songs were removed from the last album and I leaked them. I have some songwriters already, V-Tek writes for me, and I’m still bringing up more’.
Social media posts, today, by Peter and Paul, might suggest they’re trying to resolve their issues, with the possibility of putting the fracas behind. In fact Psquare is being advertised for an upcoming performance. But, as Peter told NET on Thursday, it’s now beyond music and management. They’re not likely to live together in the Parkview property, which is nearing completion; and they’ve since shared their other properties (A copy of the contract, showing Festus Keyamo as their lawyer was sighted in his home).
Peter Explains.
Because of what was happening, it was like two against one, so I said let’s share our properties. When I said that, Paul said if we want to share our properties, Jude must get the same share with us otherwise Psquare will split and I was like ‘SPLIT-AGAIN?’
Our lawyer came and told Paul that it’s wrong to share it equally with Jude, but he insisted, so we divided every property we owned in Lagos, Jos, America, Abuja. In-fact the right and left wing of the Square Ville mansion belongs to Paul and Jude now.
So that was how we shared all our properties equally among the three of us about two or three years ago’.
After sharing everything, I called Paul again and spoke to him about a proper structure. We’ve been with people like Akon and co and we see how it’s done. Right now, Psquare has millions of dollars in royalties hanging in the air.
All our endorsement and shows are shared equally between the three of us as well. After what it took to share our properties, I was embarking on a project, so I needed more money and I wanted to sell my house in America and buy something smaller, because I spend close to $30,000 to maintain that condo every year’.
So I called my caretaker to begin the process and she told Jude and Paul to send their data page and passport photographs, but they refused because they know I wanted to the sell the house. And see the value of dollars now. The house was valued at 100M then, but if I sell it now, I could make extra 250M.
And we already signed paper works and document of the house that it belongs to me but Jude ignored it, so I called our lawyer, Festus Keyamo to inform him about the development. He called them and they both refused to pick his call, so he sent them a text and requested that we should have a meeting, but Jude replied him and said no need for a meeting that the America house will be sold.
Paul said we agreed and signed on how to share but we haven’t really shared it yet, after all Jude is still holding on to the documents. Three of us have properties close to each other in Parkview and that’s why I want to sell my own and move to Banana Island.
I can’t really understand why they don’t want a structure, to me I think it’s ignorance, and if I decide to do it, it’ll seem like I’m looking for trouble.
Jude, who dissociated himself from Psquare in a social media post on Thursday, hours after our interview with Peter, declined commenting for this story. He told our correspondent ‘I’m sorry I can’t talk about it’
My wife and my mum
People think we changed when we started having wives. Before my mum died, she was at St Nicholas hospital on the island, and my sisters were living in this house (in Lekki), and every morning before my wife goes to work, she’ll leave home at 5am in the morning to go and stay with my mum even before we get there ourselves. And when she closes from work, she’s back with her again.
So I just laugh when I hear people say my mum didn’t like my wife. It’s my wife and sister that prepare my mum’s meals in the kitchen’.
Now let me shock you: our wives, the three of them are the closest set of people you can imagine. Even with all that’s going on. It’s really surprising. Somehow, they respect themselves and stayed out of the whole drama and I respect them a lot. And that’s somehow what has kept us together for this long, otherwise Psquare would have ended like two or three years back.
Why Cynthia Morgan won’t get a PSQUARE collabo
When I set up P-Classic records because people were saying Psquare haven’t helped anyone, I saw the success of Tiwa Savage and I was close to signing Cynthia Morgan and Simi. Ask them they’ll tell you.
I remember Paul came to the studio and said he heard I’m signing Simi and Cynthia, I said ‘Yes’, and he was like ‘What will people see Jude as’, and I gave him example of Drake and Young Money, Cash money.
Oscar (Producer of ‘Collabo’ ft. Don Jazzy) called to tell me that they can’t sign the deal, because he heard it’s causing problem in Psquare. Meanwhile Cynthia and Simi were both going through the contracts I gave them only for them to return it two days later that they can’t do it.
Two weeks after, I was shocked to hear that Jude had signed Cynthia Morgan, and she knows deep down that she’s never going to get a Psquare collabo.
Conclusion
The truth is I feel happy it has come, because I’ve been staying in Psquare in fear for the last four years. The situation now is, if you want Psquare to perform, you’ll have to get in touch with two management, I don’t care if you pay Paul’s management more than they pay me, once we are able to agree Psquare is still there.
I just don’t want to have a management that feels he’s in control because he’s my elder brother.
And because of the legacy that I want Psquare to be remembered for, that was why I went to talk to Paul the last time. I don’t want us to start doing beef songs, or we see at the clubs and we don’t greet each other, or ignore our kids and stuff like that. And even if Psquare breaks up, I still want us to have our relationship as brothers. If I’ve regretted anything in my life so far, I swear to God this is not one of them, I’m happy because I’ve been in pain for a long time’.
It’s good if we go and do stuff separately so that even IF we come back we’ll have respect for each other. I wish Paul the best and I wish Jude the best as well.
 Ejikenaija.

Mercy Aigbe calls out this day Style over "Best Dressed" cover snub for AMVCA

This day Style released their weekly issue today and their cover story centered on Nollywood's Best Dressed and most of the pictures used were from the 2016 AMVCA. Surprisingly Mercy Aigbe Gentry who was seen as one of the best dressed at that event wasn't on the cover. Mercy wasn't going to let it pass and she called them out in an Instagram post. She wrote..

woman shares photos of horrific allergic reaction to hair die which made her unrecognizable

Instagram user, Chemere Armstrong had a severe allergic reaction after using a Henna hair dye. The photos she posted shows her face swollen and her her eyes completely shut. In the caption of the photo, Armstrong who is also a a health and fitness vlogger describes the scary ordeal; "If you been following me for a while you know that I tried to be as transparent as possible. You will also know that my 100 days of just juice and smoothies has been very important to me. Today is day 100!!! The past couple of days has been extremely rough. I mention before that I die my hair with a hair die that was what made me become like this over the past few weeks. Please
be careful of the kind of die you use they may have dangerous side effects on you and your skin --EjikeNaija.

Thursday, 17 March 2016

5 signs you're with someone you should marry

Gone are the days where a simple text could cause you to doodle your new married name in a notebook and think that is your forever person.
As adults, we need real signs we're with someone we should marry. So here, our experts divulge five ways to judge you're dating a guy or gal who means married business.
1. You can come back from a fight
It's not a good sign of you bicker nonstop. But, when you engage in an argument, you can each recover and are more open to the other's needs you're in good shape to say "I do. Couples often struggle when their partner goes into a more primitive fight-and-flight response.
If your partner knows how to stay open and present, rather than shut down, then you have good chance of making it through tough times. At the very least, if he or she knows how to call a time out and return later to the conversation, then that is a very good sign.

2. You make one another laugh
As they say, laughter is the best medicine. And as it turns out, tickling your partner's funny bone can be the healing a healthy relationship needs and a sure sign you're ready to tie the knot.
It's not just about having fun. Laughter in a relationship is a sign that both people can be vulnerable with one another. If your partner can make fun of himself, that is a huge plus because it's indicative of a person who can truly be vulnerable and has confidence.
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3. Your relationship has been (successfully) tested
Any relationship can appear on the road to marriage when it's fresh, shiny, and new. It may appear as though your relationship is ideal. But it is often through personal challenges, heartache, and disappointment that we really see what our romantic relationships are made of.
So if you've stayed together through a tough time and still have a positive outlook, you've been given a sign you're with someone you could marry. Give yourself some time to allow the relationship to withstand some of life's tests before taking the next step.
4. You feel totally comfortable around one another
When our experts say you should feel comfortable with anyone you might see as future spouse, they don't mean you can wear your sweatpants in front of him or her.
When someone is fully comfortable with his or her romantic partner, he or she feels safe, honored, and respected. And with that kind of comfortable transparency, she says, "a person can follow his or her dreams knowing his or her lover will be there.
Even more exciting is the fact that his or her romantic partner in life will be willing to explore their intimate play in the bedroom together without judgment, but while sharing laughter and excitement.
5. Your life goals are aligned
It's a sure sign you shouldn't marry someone if he or she wants different things from life than you do. But if your goals are aligned, our experts say, you may be with someone to whom you could tie the knot.
Two people can date without having the same life vision, but marriage is a completely different story. Does your partner want kids?
How many? How does he or she view money? Are you ready to settle down and he or she is still into the party scene? Having life goals that align with one another makes it more likely that your marriage will succeeding

16 signs your job is destroying your marriage

Maybe you're a workaholic and spend 80 hours a week at the office. Perhaps you come home every night wanting to complain about your micro managing boss or annoying coworkers.
Whatever the culprit, our careers often affect our personal relationships and in extreme cases, they can even ruin marriages.
"Because we spend the majority of our waking hours Monday through Friday at the office, our jobs tend to easily spill into our personal lives.
Here are 16 signs your job is ruining your marriage:
You put work priorities ahead of your relationship
If you find yourself opting out of activities you would normally engage in with your spouse, such as going to a movie, visiting friends or just enjoying time together, you could be placing undue pressure on the relationship.
You're too tired from work to spend time with your spouse
If work is sucking all of your energy out of you, your partner will be affected and take note.
Your spouse has become your career therapist
If you find yourself constantly seeking advice from your spouse on your next "move" at work, you could be hurting your marriage.
You have nothing to talk to them about except work
If you literally have nothing else to talk about with your spouse than work, this is a bad sign.
If you have trouble compartmentalizing work and personal life, you likely will go into discussions about people and projects without even realizing. It's a habit that you have to make a conscious effort to kick.
You arrive late to important personal events or frequently cancel due to work
This can create a slow build-up of resentment from your spouse and create the impression you are choosing your work intentionally over your personal commitments.
Your partner clams up when you ask them about their day
If your spouse feels that they're taking the brunt of your office worries, they may withdraw and seem unusually quiet, not wanting to add to the drama. Or, they may feel that sharing their own struggles is futile, because the topic will ultimately bounce back to your office dilemmas.
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You argue more with your spouse
If you are carrying home stress with you from the office, then you may become more irritable and end up taking it out on your partner in totally unrelated areas.
Your spouse's body language appears defensive
If your spouse reacts to your work discussions with crossed arms, little eye contact, or poor posture, that may be a clue that they are quietly suffering, as your relationship may be.
You argue about new things
If there's some sort of change to your work life maybe a new role, a new boss, a new salary and you're suddenly fighting with your spouse about things you never argued about before, it's probably no coincidence.
You have less patience with your spouse, and vice versa
If your spouse if starting to resent your work, they may not always open up about it because they want to be supportive of you but the resentment might manifest itself in other areas, such as being less patient or more irritable.
You don't feel like socializing.
If you're beginning to feel that your mind is in some far-off place, your spouse probably detects it. If you're preoccupied with work once you get home, or even into the weekend, you may feel that you need to keep to yourself. You may deprive yourself of normal social activities with your partner.
You spend very little time with your spouse because you're always busy with work
If you're staying at the office later at night, going in on weekends more frequently, or bringing work home with you more and more, it will likely cut into your personal time that you'd normally spend with your partner. And, chances are, this will strain the relationship.
You notice he or she doesn't listen to you when you speak anymore.
A spouse who's sick of hearing about you "feeling trapped" at work or that you were admonished again might offer less eye contact or keep busy with another activity as you speak to mitigate the stress, says Taylor.
You start making more sacrifices to make everyone happy
Are you getting up two hours earlier each morning so you can come home earlier at night? Are you giving up personal hobbies or exercise in order to achieve your personal and work goals? This may eventually cause you to break.
You realize that you are happier at work than you are at home, and feel more engaged with your work colleagues than with your spouse
If you look forward to the end of the weekend or even stay an extra day away on your business trip because you realize it's easier or less stressful to be at work than to be at home, you've got a problem on your hands.
Your spouse uses sarcasm to convey their true feelings
If your partner says things like, "I wonder if the children will recognize you when you're back from this trip?" it may be a sign they're fed up.

Nigerians begins to complain about Buhari's change policy

With Corruption a bag of pure water was N80
Without Corruption a bag of pure water is N150
With Corruption dollar was N180
Without Corruption dollar is N400
With Corruption I have 20hrs electricity at low tariff
Without Corruption I have 7hrs electricity

with 45% increase in tariff
With Corruption keke to my house takes N50
Without Corruption keke to my house takes N100

WithCorruption smallest indomie was N40
Without Corruption smallest indomie is N60
The list can go on and on but I just have to end it and
take a stand......
# IStandWithCorruption
‪#‎Bringbackourcorruption‬.
‪#‎BuharibringbackNigeria‬.
‪#‎Bringbacknaira‬.
If with Corruption Dollar was N180 and without Corruption Dollar is now N425, Brother and Sisters, you will agree with me that we need corruption in this country... Titus Sardine started with 4 fishes, it reduced to 3
. Then now it's 2. In years to come, you'll open Sardine and see "Try Again"

Monday, 14 March 2016

Wizkid buys new million dollar house in L.A United states

 The star boy crooner who reportedly has a house in Lagos of over N68 million is at it again in the united states of America
"Star Boy boss, Ayodeji Ibahim Balgoun, popularly called Wizkid, appears to have become a house owner in Los Angeles, USA.
The ‘babanla’ crooner, who is on tour for a while now, shared a photo of the said house in L.A and wrote:

    Crib so big I got no Neighbors.

Another artiste, Dj Maphorisa of Uhuru, who is with Wizkid in L.A also shared some photos from the house.
Wizkid, who has been plagued with song theft from different artistes, ranging form Dammy Krane to veteran act, Blackface, has been privileged to work with some Grammy award winners like R Kelly, who featured the talented act  on his last album, Chris Brown, with whom he performed on stage and rapper Tyga.
He garnered extra international attention when a video of Hollywood power couple Alicia Keys and her husband, Swizz beat dancing to his song went viral.

Stepahanie okereke Linus says motherhood is a beautiful feeling

In an interview, she has said that women should not died during child birth.
She said about motherhood “That is the most beautiful experience ever. Sometimes, you have this out-of-body experience that when you look at the child, you tell yourself, ‘Is this my child? Did he actually come out of me?’
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    “You have moments like that and it just shows you that our life is spiritual and God is just amazing.
    There are certain things you just don’t understand and when you have a child and you see his eyes, it’s like you’re living your life all over again. It’s a very wonderful feeling, I’m telling you.
    It’s something you can’t even describe. It’s something that you need to experience. When you look at the innocence of the child and the need for you to protect your baby and make sure that everything is done right for him or her.
    It’s just an amazing feeling and I’m really grateful to God that he gave me the ability, that He made me experience it.” Stephanie okereke who have produced a lot of movies over the past few years and her latest movie which won her an award for the best over all movie 2016  in the AMVCA awards, she sure is enjoying the joys of being a mother.

Male Kim Kardashian pays homage to her with his own naked selfie.

The
male version of the mother of two, who went through series of surgical procedures just have a look like her has joined the trend of sharing naked selfie… and since, Kim K is obviously his role model, it’s expected that he walks in her shoes.
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Just like the rest, the savage, James Jordan, shared his naked mirror selfie with the caption:
“When you have nothing to wear..lol”
SMH!



See more of his photos  Is this guy crazy or something??

A soldier caught his wife with another man having sex in his matrimonial bed and marched them to the street naked

A soldier caught his wife with another man having sex in his matrimonial bed and marched them to the street naked... The question is, do u think what the soldier did was RIGHT or WRONG?????? Drop your comments

Tuesday, 1 March 2016

Ufuoma McDermott compares her daughter with North West Kim k's daughter

Photos: Actress Ufuoma McDermott wants to know if her daughter looks like North West

The actress shared photos of her daughter, Kesiana and those of Kim and Kanye's daughter North West, asking if there is any resemblance between the adorable duo."Do Kesiana and North West look alike?...the last pic got me staring hard" - What do you guys think?

We sell human parts for N30,000 — Man caught with human parts confesses

We sell human parts for N30,000 — suspect
Many were stunned into silence yesterday at the headquarters of Oyo State Police Command as a 50-year old suspect, Kamoru Oladele, narrated how he sells human parts for between N25,000 and N30,000, adding that his gang has human abattoirs in Oyo and Osun states.

The suspect told Vanguard:

    “I am a herbalist and I do fortune charms for people. I am not the one that usually sells human parts. I buy from some people. This is my first time of engaging in this kind of business. I usually buy the human skull for N10,000 and sell it for N25,000 for those that come for fortune charms.”

Kamoru Oladele… Human skull is called agbon. When police searched his house, they alleged that one smoked human skull was recovered. They further explained that the suspect used coded words for different human parts. Oladele said the words can only be decoded by their initiates, adding that “a human head that sells for N30,000 is called agbon (coconut).”

The abattoirs ,he also disclosed that their trade was carried out in their human abattoirs located at Amuloko and Kuta villages in Oyo and Osun states, respectively.



Top Nigerian ‘Dads’ Under 30 In The Nigerian Music Industry

 "It’s one thing to be a popular Nigerian celebrity and another to be under 30 with a son or daughter.
It’s entirely a different ball game running both positions at the same time knowing you’d rarely have time to spend with your kids.
These Nigerian Celebrities have proven us wrong. Though they may be rich and famous but they always remember one thing, family comes first.
1. Wizkid
Ibrahim Ayo Balogun popularly known by his stage name, WizKid at 26 is a proud father of a handsome son, Boluwatife Balogun.
The ‘Star Boy’ label chief welcomed his son with his baby mama, Sola Ogudu in 2011 meaning the swaggalicious boy turns 5 this year. His fashion sense is son on point he had to be named the best dressed Nigerian Celebrity by VOGUE. Give him a couple more years and he might be ruling the run way.
Meanwhile, he has another son with an alleged baby mama, Binta..He apparently, has refused to even make a comment on the issue..
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. Olamide
Olamide Adedeji fondly called Baddo is a father on this list too. He has a son with his long term girlfriend, Aisat Suleiman and the singer is in fact very proud to be a dad.
The 27-year-old rapper has since named his son Maximiliano. Awww reminds me of the Greeks and Italians. Maximiliano was born in 2015, he clocks 1 this month.
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4. Tayo Faniran
Nigerian model, Tayo Faniran who rose to limelight after representing Nigeria at the Big Brother Africa Hotshots where he welcomed a son with his baby mama while at the reality show.
Tayo named his son Jayden who should clock 2 in September. These kids are growing so fast these daus
)5. Terry GGabriel Oche Amanyi is without a doubt a street king as he has been ruling the streets with his eccentric dance sense and controversial lyrics songs which are all street favorites.
The 29-year-old singer is also one of the proud single dad’s in the entertainment industry. Terry G has a 2-year-old son and isn’t shy to flaunt his love for his family.

Monday, 29 February 2016

Zimbabwe’s Godmother Of Prostitutes Retires After Sleeping With 4000 Men

"According to The New Zimbabwean News, a woman
in her 30 years years long career as a Prostitute, claimed to have served more than 4,000 men. During her legendary career, the 55-year-old Prostitute who goes by the name Sylvia Kandeya with the alias SK, who has decided to go on retirement, used to sleep with more than 7 men per day but now things have changed as she is retiring; and it’s now one or two men per month.
She said that’s just like a rough estimate as she can’t simply remember all the men she has slept. She said they should be more than figure
SK who is considered the godmother of all sex workers in and around the Madondo shopping centre of the MT Darwin Township has a register of all sex workers in the area and they all pay homage to her before plying their trade there.
She has now managed to buy a stand in Mt Darwin Township, built a house and also sent her children to school.
The popular Prostitute told the New Zimbabwe news in an interview that she has sub-divided her house into several rooms where she now allows other Prostitutes stay and pay her rentals. Sometimes when business is low, she gives them time to make money and pay later.
She however boasted that with the coming of young and energetic sex workers, she is not in competition with them because what she does is assist them whenever it’s necessary and she has opened a register to know which sex worker is at Madondo shopping centre in case something happens to them.
She wasn’t also shy to reveal that she is HIV positive, but was quick to clarify that her retirement is not because she is infected, but age.
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Read her interview with New Zimbabwe news below.:
SYLVIA KANDEYA (SK) claims to have bedded more than 4000 men during her 30-year sex work life and she has now decided to retire. Newzimbabwe.com (NZ) travelled to Mount Darwin to talk to Sylvia about her enterprising career.
NZ: Word has it that you are the godmother of all sex workers in and around Madondo shopping centre and sex workers bow before you; how far true is that?
SK: All sex workers that come and trade here in Mt Darwin and especially here at Madondo Shopping centre pass through me and my register has more than 20 of them.
NZ: But how did you end up being so popular?
SK: The only work that I have done in my life is to sell sex services for close to three decades; I am 55 years now and I don’t remember the exact number of men that I have offered services but kana kuma 4 000 vanosvika (the number may be as high as 4000).
NZ: On average, how many men per day or a week did you sleep with?
SK: (laughs) I used to sleep with more than 7 men per day but now things have changed; I going into retirement, it’s now one or two men per month.
NZ: Did they pay you well?
SK: Oh yes! Very well, I remember years back when men used to have lots of money to spare before mari ye Zimbabwe yadyiwa nemujuru (before the record breaking inflation).
NZ: And where did all that money go?
SK: I managed to buy a stand here in Mt Darwin Township, built a house and I also sent my children to school.
NZ: You said you have more than 20 sex workers under you; do they pay to be registered or…?
SK: No no no, they don’t pay me anything, but kana zviri ku fire (if business is good) they usual pay a token of appreciation.

NZ: With the coming of young and energetic sex workers, are you able to compete with them?Remember, I have sub-divided my house into several rooms where they stay and pay me rentals, that’s the arrangement. Sometimes when business is low, I give them time to make money and pay later.
SK: I don’t compete with them; I assist them whenever its necessary and I have opened a register to know which sex worker is at Madondo shopping centre in case something happens to them.
NZ: How active are you now in your work these days?
SK: With age, I now have very few clients that I serve personally and two permanent one who come for the ‘good service’.
NZ: With the current economic challenges facing the country, is sex work still paying well?
SK: All is not well, sex workers here are even paid $1 for a quickie and $5 for the rest of the night, but long ago they used to charge between $10 and $20 a night.
NZ: This may be very sensitive it’s up to you to answer it or not, word around says you are ‘retiring’ for health reasons, how far true is that?
SK: Gone are the days when people would be ashamed to come out in open; it’s not a secret, yes I am HIV positive but that’s not the reason for retirement, it has to do with age.
NZ: When did you discover that you were HIV positive?
SK: I got tested in 2005, that’s when I discovered that I am HIV positive and since then I have been living positively and now l also educate the young sex workers the use of condoms.
NZ: Thank you very much for your time; we wish you a restful retirement.


Ciara Visits Secondary Schools In Lagos!

American singer, Ciara Princess Harris more known by her first name Ciara unlike most foreign celebrities didn’t evade Nigeria immediately after performing in the country. The 30 year old Texas born singer after performing last night visited 2 secondary schools in Lagos including Ilado Community Junior High School and Akande Dahunsi Memorial Senior/Junior High School. The mother of one described her visitation to the schools as one of the best days of her life. See more below


2face Idibia's first son is so grown..and working on his music talent.


Nino will be the opening act at his mum, Adesunmbo Adeoye, Inspiring Change Convention, on March 5th. 2face is so proud of him.


Angela Okorie caught smoking weed in public


This story was rumoured about some months ago about Angela okorie been caught smoking weed. Angela okorie late clearer up the AIT when she revealed to her fans that she only took that pic on set during the production of one of her movies. She still remains Angela

Sunday, 28 February 2016

Photo: Olamide Takes Adorable Picture With His Son, Batifeori Maximilliano Adedeji



"Olamidetook to his Instagram page to share the above picture with his cute son Batifeori maximilliano Adedeji. In an interview some weeks ago, the famous indigenous rapper, spoke on his relationship with his baby mama and long time girlfriend, Adebukunmi Suleiman. He stated that although they are still together, he has no plans for marriage now

Nigerian Singer, Terry-G Involved In Ghastly In Accidenthotos)


Nigerian singer Terry G was today involved in a ghastly car accident in Lekki.The terrible accident happened around 6am in the morning of today . According to an eyewitness,the crash happened when Terry G was on his way back from a night club between the 1st and 2nd roundabout in Lekki. His new Range Rover […] The post Nigerian Singer, Terry-G Involved In Ghastly Car Accident In Lekki

Checkout Alexx Ekubo’s Unbelievable Reply To Girl Who Asked Him Out


Checkout Alexx Ekubo’s Unbelievable Reply To Girl Who Asked Him Out

[image: Alexx] Nollywood actor, Alexx Ekubo, is no doubt one of the most sought after bachelors in the movie industry, what with his good looks and charm. Understandably, one of his female fans, however could not hold back and expressed her ‘feelings’ for him on twitter. Checkout the twitter exchange between the actor and his female admirer below

Flavour flaunts huge sexy body at the gyme with Phynofino

Check out the hot dad of two at the gym with Igbo indigenous rapper Phynofino.

I will never marry an actor-Halima Abubakar reveals


Actress Omoni Oboli shares throwback photo of when she was a teenager. looking so beautiful

Actress Omoni Oboli shares throwback photo of when she was a teenager.

The actress shared the photo and wrote "#fbf #theFirstLady at 18 or 19! Oh my days! My sis just showed my this picture. She refused to give it to me so I had to take a picture of it. Flash back of life! I was skinny as a rake but still had chubby cheeks.#flashbackfriday"

Paul Okoye takes his sonimming, shares wonderful photos of him and his son swimming


Paul Okoye takes his sonimming)

The musician said its time to take a break from too much music talk and play with all that matters,his son, Andre.

Caroline Danjuma, her husband & beautiful family attend movie premiere

Caroline Danjuma, her husband and thier kids att

Actress Caroline danjuma, her husband and their two sons today attended the premiere of the movie, The Stalker, which she featured in and also executive produced.

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